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I am made of urgencies: my joys are intense; my sorrows, absolute. I fill myself with absences, empty myself of excess. I do not fit the narrow I only live in extremes. Little does not serve me average does not satisfy me, naives were never my strength! All great and small moments, made with love and tender care, become eternal memories to me. Words may win me over for the time being... But actions either keep me or lose me forever. I suppose understanding me is not a matter of intelligence but of feeling, of making contact... Either it reaches you or it doesn't.
-Clarice Lispector
Jul 10, 2025

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Quiet sighs sweetly with you in small and unnoticed moments--like pausing to admire spring blossoms, or the stillness after finishing a book you didn’t want to end. She reaches for your hand and pulls you close--offering an embrace during life’s painful moments. In grief, she sits beside you, feeling your ache and holding space for precious memories. She smiles wryly as two strangers catch eyes--feeling the world fade, and the pull of an invisible thread between them. When words fall short in sacred moments, she holds the fragile stillness of a shared, knowing gaze. Quiet is a gentle strength. She is permission to savor, to soften, to stay. Quiet is a doe resting peacefully on a sunlit patch of earth, present & unafraid.
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