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the lightning bugs tonight just reminded me that not everything has to be a photo op. they look very pretty tonight tho just take my word for it pls. humbling nonetheless.
Jul 6, 2025

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being twenty something is like the one day the peony is in full bloom, or the avocado is just right, or the banana looks like a stock image of a banana. but the guacamole is always better and the banana is a little sweeter a few days later
Jul 6, 2025
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@VIRMILION omg…so profound so true. getting this tatted on my forehead.
Jul 6, 2025
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but at the same time i freak out daily about capitalizing on beauty/youth and not wasting it (not a healthy way to think but is it my fault that i do that? )
Jul 6, 2025
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@VIRMILION i get it tbh…i think it’s fine to relish your youth while u still have it as long as it isn’t the crux of your existence. im starting to get forehead wrinkles and im just like well let me just enjoy being young hot and free while it lasts and that joy will carry over into old age :) there’s also the idea of finding beauty in both the young and the old.
Jul 6, 2025

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