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I just posted about this and many people agreed with me.. I’m 5 years younger than you but I’m in a weird transition phase away from the people I’ve known most of my life. I have some solid friends that I am sticking around with though.. I really don’t know what to do to meet new people. I’ve gotten into magic the gathering as a hobby but it’s a hard way to make friends being kinda geared towards antisocial types. I’m going closer to the city in the fall and hope to meet more people with those social avenues available there. There isn’t much in suburban hell unless you’re willing to drive longer distances. I relate to you but unfortunately have little in the way of advice :/
Jun 29, 2025

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Idk where you are but there are lots of M:TG groups! There’s a monthly one on the patio of Braindead movie theater in LA so there have got to be other meetups other places!
Jul 1, 2025
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@CHLOE_ yess I have been going to weeklies sometimes at local card shops.. they are kinda fun but also attract those types who are wayyy too into tabletop games LOL.. my friends and I have been rotating hosting a few nights a week which has been great
Jul 1, 2025
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@CHLOE_ yeSS haha that is trueee I forget that. but Also everyone into tabletop games even peripherally needs a good Game Master and that could be a way to fold in a new friend!
Jul 1, 2025
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Once you reach a certain age it seems like everyone else either a) has a large, supportive, and well-rounded circle of friends with no room for anyone else or b) has no friends and it's obvious why once you meet them. I wish I had more advice for you but I think you just have to go out there and take risks. (PI.FYI can also be a great way to meet people but only if you live in one of maybe five cities, I'm sorry to say.)
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I moved to a new city during covid and times were tough here for a while, but this is what worked for me: - befriending your coworkers (sometimes they’re really cool and will become your bff, most of them time they’re fine to occasionally hang w) -being a regular at a coffee shop, bar, or concert/show venue (hit up the familiar faces and they’re likely to introduce you to their crew as well)
-bumble bff (kind of the worst but also fun- I met a few of my close friends on here who then introduced me to their friend groups. Mostly great interactions but be weary of some ppl trying to use it as a sly dating tool)
-get involved in the community! i host a book club and I play soccer on a local rec team. I’ve met so many people that I would’ve probably never encountered otherwise through Bookclub- don’t be afraid of multigenerational friendships! With soccer, I’ve met such a diverse crowd and it’s encouraged me to attempt to learn Spanish. It’s nice to be able to get a group of ppl together and play/practice when you all have a night free, or go and watch a game! If you’re sporty, you can also invite your new sporty pals out for runs, hikes, or other workout type activities!
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ive been single for 5 years so when i moved, going out alone wasn’t really a new concept it was just the unfamiliar environment that was intimidating. so i just had to get over my fear of the literal unknown.
either way, concerts are the easiest place for me to make new connections cus i like to dance and i mean there’s already a solid topic of conversation to lead with (the artist you r there to see 🌚)
dive bars r easy too, i just have a drink at the bar, talk to whoever’s there, and go wherever the wind takes me.
i also just straight up asked my coworkers if anyone wanted to be friends and /or hangout. sometimes (in seattle at least) u just have to be straightforward
my old roommate liked going to queer nights and that’s how she met a few of her friends
my current roommate is into gaming so he goes to gaming meets & card game battles
and i have another friend who loves skating so she goes to skating events
i guess, meet new people thru ur hobbies 🧘🏽‍♀️ BUT ALSO don’t be afraid to ask :)
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