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trying everything on

i really lost my sense of personal style for a couple years. i found that going to a store and grabbing a bunch of shit to try on can be super fun and helpful when getting your mojo back that way. getting to take a real look at yourself in the clothes really helps you envision what they’d look like with the rest of your wardrobe. you’ll see what you love, and what’s not for you. the best part about it is surprising yourself when something you didn’t think you’d like actually makes you feel really good! going to the stores to try things on is free and can be a fun date with friends! have a real movie makeover moment if you wish. the biggest thing that got me excited about dressing myself again tho was identifying the pieces that i absolutely adore in my wardrobe and utilizing them as much as possible. i love finding new ways to style the same jacket or dress or whatever. that’s even better than buying something new because you already love the piece and it already fits your style!

@roogby

Jan 18, 2025

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Have a strategy

Look at the six items you actually wear and note what you like about them: is it the color, the fit, the style (casual, formal, eclectic, etc.), brand, season, and fabric. As an example, I feel most confident in structured, classic modern outfits— I look for all organic materials (linen, cotton, silk), I tend to stick to a few favorite brands for basics, and I keep a list of what I need to replace/what’s missing in my closet so I don’t impulse purchase vintage t-shirts when I need a fitted blazer. Thrift stores are really great for exploring your style— so are mood boards. When you see an outfit you love online, take a picture of it or note what about it was interesting. One thing that I think goes overlooked is underwear— a well fitted bra really changes how clothes, especially shirts, hang and feel. You’ll only wear an outfit if the underwear you wear it with is comfortable. So if you have a dress you love, but aren’t wearing it because it either requires shapewear that makes you uncomfortable, or a nude/backless underwear or bra that you don’t keep in your closet, you’ll get less wear out of the item. Additionally, know your measurements. Your body size is neutral, but language around sizing isn’t, and it can be discouraging to shop when you have a vague idea of your sizes and end up needing to size up or down. Get a soft tape measure, and get your true waist, hips, bust, shoulders, inseam, and rise. I have a very high rise to my natural waist, and knowing that helps me shop for pants and skirts with less frustration over fit. Lastly, it’s okay for it to take time— curating your style and wardrobe should be ongoing and thoughtful; a fast fashion haul won’t help figure out what you like outside of trends, and those clothes tend to break down quickly. If you can, try to buy well made versions of your staple items— resale and thrift stores are a great place to find real leather jackets, upscale basics, and one of a kind pieces that you can’t find elsewhere.

@nadiyaelyse

Jun 23, 2024

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Trying on your clothes

been feeling really uncool and uninspired with my clothing, so last night I tried on loads of outfits, figuring out different combinations and stylings. i took photos of every combination I liked, so I can never say “I have nothing to wear”. It was really fun and I felt good about myself and my wardrobe. Instantly stopped me wanting to buy anything new. I highly recommend it!

@mouse

Mar 10, 2024

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TURNING MUNDANE SELF-CARE TASKS INTO “SPELLS”

Making dinner = a nourishment spell Cleaning = a cleansing spell Showering = a cleansing spell Lotion = a protection spell Makeup, hair, getting dressed = a glamour spell

@dani_z_baybee

May 29, 2025

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NOT KNOWING ANYONE ON P.I. IRL

Idk I like being mysterious and posting my rec’s into the void. I’m low key gatekeeping this app sorry @TYLER

@dani_z_baybee

Jun 21, 2025

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EAVESDROPPING

Everyone stfu people are yelling outside, I need to hear what they’re saying!!

@dani_z_baybee

Mar 21, 2025