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Yes, I suffer from the common tragedy of being a bi woman in a relationship w a cis/straight man. I wish I was gayer, but its come to my attention that I tend to love and hyperfixate on music, women, and other certain particularities strongly associated w lesbian culture. So I guess I am gay enough.
3d ago
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i think more bisexual people should try being nice and normal to lesbians.
there is just so much energy from our community being wasted on complaining about how hard it is to be a woman with a (cis and/or het) boyfriend. Actually, it’s fine. just leave him at home sometimes
Apr 5, 2024
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I'm trying to bring the queer vibes back into my life. Love being all of bi. But I am a little over liking boys rn I just want to have a few fun crushes that are not men. Go to some gay clubs. Meet more queer people.
3d ago
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Ngl I get jealous of gay people a lot they just seem to be having more fun, are more interesting people on average, and get to avoid the constant stress of men and women not understanding each other or getting along. Unfortunately I’m not gay myself though But it seems better Tbh. (Please don’t take this the wrong way!)
Jan 27, 2024
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Apr 24, 2025
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For a good chunk of my 30 years on this Earth I’ve been helping to take care of older, sick relatives. First, my maternal grandfather who was bedridden for 4 years after a fall followed by a stroke. Then, my maternal grandmother slowly slipped into dementia until she passed on an August night a little over 2 years ago. Both lived full lives and passed peacefully. But the process of seeing them falter after knowing them as strong individuals is soul crushing.
I’m now taking care of my partner’s grandmother. While I’m not alone, this third time around of being a caretaker of a family member not directly my own confirms what I already knew: death is easier to confront than the process of dying. It’s ugly, reeks, and it is extremely hard to grapple with if you aren’t at peace with your own life.
Nevermind whatever happens at the funeral. Family members show their true colors in moments like this.
Apr 5, 2025