Rec | YOUNGEST OF 4

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Didn’t get everything I wanted, in fact got pretty mistreated as an over correction against babying me My mom definitely saw me as her baby and still does, but whenever we’d have a big family conflict and I’d be justifiably extremely upset and she would rightfully try to defend and comfort me, nobody would let her :/ I *do* fulfill the stereotype of being the weirdest, least traditional, most liberal/progressive, and most likely to move far from home, though! And it’s true that my parents were more relaxed about curfews and such with me, but that could be because I literally didn’t do anything like drinking or partying and they actually knew/believed that (so I *don’t* live up to being the most rebellious or experimental, that would be the second child for my family lol)

@random-online-nerd

May 31, 2025

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Omg same

May 31, 2025

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