a little bit of discomfort to address what’s bothering me w someone is better than a lot of discomfort associated w maybe ruining a relationship bc I couldn’t speak up sooner
I’m almost 30 have avoided this most of my life you can skip the agony of not knowing by having THE conversation even if it’s kind of painful it’s less and shorter term than if you (i) stew and suffer in silence until the love or whatever becomes festering resentment
it's always worth it. it's how love deepens, wounds heel, and resentments fade.
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{writing this in part to nudge myself to initiate a couple more 🙇🏻♀️}
I have these thrifted like true granny mumus and I swear to god when I wear them im like I am fertile and beautiful and god is within me and I understand my mother. cannot overstate how ugly these mumus are but they’re so soft and the way they sit like… ethereal.
