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listen the boyf and friends need guidance because I have realized I am NOT easy to give gifts to. Sometimes I gotta spell it out
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šIt's like a christmas list for your birthday!!! Maybe peeps already do that, but honestly, lots of people in my life are not good gift givers šand I loveeeeee giving gifts and putting thought into them, so when I get a gift that is random, I'm like...š I am very thankful, don't get me wrong! But making a list of things that I either specifically want or need is so much better because.. no disappointment!!! And I get just what you asked for!!! Saves time and money and works for everyone šš»
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manifesto forthcoming.
i hear time and time again - āiām not a birthday person.ā as a convert, iām here to challenge that limiting belief.
not unlike new yearās eve, getting your hopes up for a single night is futile. thus, i have the following advice:
-embrace birthday weekĀ Ā Ā month is a little much, even for me, but allow the week to be birthday-centric. this doesnāt have to be sunday to sunday; it canĀ Ā consist of any of the surrounding days that feel relevant to THE day
-multiple experiences Ā Ā much like new yearās eve, hanging your hat on one night is doomed. thus, i recommend that you implement ALL (not some) of the following:
INTIMATE DINNER +with partner, family, a couple of friends. something that feels low key and non stressful. great for a thursday or sunday night. let them know ahead of time (if they need reminding) that you would like a candle of some sort on a house dessert (is this too bossy?? NO! youād do the same for the ones you love. next). (i also get desserts with candles the whole month, unabashedly. and do the same for loved ones.)
SOLO DAY +plan things for yourself: solo lunch, matinee, massage. buy a fancy latte. take a cab. spare no expense; today you turn off the switch in your head that wonders if itās worth it because it is.
FRIEND DAY +have people over, meet at a bar, or throw a full on party. this is group time. i honestly recommend doing this one last. youāll likely have enough fun with the other two events that this will feel like a cherry on top. ask your type A friend to help plan, if you need help, and remind them again ab some sort of treat w canes. this doesnāt have to be a blowout! tell everyone to bring whomever, +1s, enemies as itās more-the-merrier vibes.
tl;dr everyone deserves to be celebrated and there are people in your life eager to help you make it happen. ask for what you want. do the same for them down the line ā¤ļø
ps my birthday is 3/17 if you need to start preparing pps bonus tip - pic is of last yearās birthday outfit. i also like to throw a very easy mini theme to get people thinking ahead of time (i said to wear silk, leather, or mesh. everybody looked hot) ppps i have so much more to say ab this, lmk if you want moreĀ
i hear time and time again - āiām not a birthday person.ā as a convert, iām here to challenge that limiting belief.
not unlike new yearās eve, getting your hopes up for a single night is futile. thus, i have the following advice:
-embrace birthday weekĀ Ā Ā month is a little much, even for me, but allow the week to be birthday-centric. this doesnāt have to be sunday to sunday; it canĀ Ā consist of any of the surrounding days that feel relevant to THE day
-multiple experiences Ā Ā much like new yearās eve, hanging your hat on one night is doomed. thus, i recommend that you implement ALL (not some) of the following:
INTIMATE DINNER +with partner, family, a couple of friends. something that feels low key and non stressful. great for a thursday or sunday night. let them know ahead of time (if they need reminding) that you would like a candle of some sort on a house dessert (is this too bossy?? NO! youād do the same for the ones you love. next). (i also get desserts with candles the whole month, unabashedly. and do the same for loved ones.)
SOLO DAY +plan things for yourself: solo lunch, matinee, massage. buy a fancy latte. take a cab. spare no expense; today you turn off the switch in your head that wonders if itās worth it because it is.
FRIEND DAY +have people over, meet at a bar, or throw a full on party. this is group time. i honestly recommend doing this one last. youāll likely have enough fun with the other two events that this will feel like a cherry on top. ask your type A friend to help plan, if you need help, and remind them again ab some sort of treat w canes. this doesnāt have to be a blowout! tell everyone to bring whomever, +1s, enemies as itās more-the-merrier vibes.
tl;dr everyone deserves to be celebrated and there are people in your life eager to help you make it happen. ask for what you want. do the same for them down the line ā¤ļø
ps my birthday is 3/17 if you need to start preparing pps bonus tip - pic is of last yearās birthday outfit. i also like to throw a very easy mini theme to get people thinking ahead of time (i said to wear silk, leather, or mesh. everybody looked hot) ppps i have so much more to say ab this, lmk if you want moreĀ
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šWhy tf have I spent years being like omg is tang too much? Should I pare Things down etc
Itās my birthday bitch and I expect gifts drinks kisses and love
And I will be having two days of events sue me
Itās my birthday bitch and I expect gifts drinks kisses and love
And I will be having two days of events sue me
Jan 3, 2025
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