this helps a lot and gives much to talk about and connect with, i can say this is with SOME experience, not sure tho because i have like no friends
May 27, 2025
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It could be someone from work, or someone you met at a party, or someone you know from a place you go a lot — but making a connection and following up with them to hang out! I’ve been freaked of this before, but have tried to reach out to people more & most of the time it’s been a positive thing.
It’s helpful for me to find a common interest like if we talk about a movie that’s coming out or a hobby we both like, to invite them into that!
Mar 11, 2024
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if there is a simple method to making friends it is seeing the same people at the same place(s) week after week. in some phases of life this is easier; ex, freshman year of college dorm. in other phases of life it is more difficult.
regardless, you have interests. other people have those interests. find people with those interests, that are fun, and also have space in their life for new people. do the interest together at some sort of location. then, invite the various people you've met over for a dinner party. voila- friends.
this isn't always a quick process, and it will likely be often frustrating and disappointing. its worth it though. the internet can help facilitate with meeting similar people who are open to friends.
specific things that have worked for me: going out dancing/club scene, internet(reddit/twitter), friends of friends, seeing movies, having people over for dinner.
good luck!
Mar 11, 2024
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a coffee shop, running club, pottery class, karaoke night etc.
Whatever thing ur into. Go to places where you can do that thing regularly.
Eventally and usually pretty organically you will begin to make friends with people. People who you probably have alot in common with because you already have a shared interest. Yay!
I moved to a new state about a year ago knowing no one. I joined an improv class and now I have a whole network of people that I never expected to know. From that network you'll meet other people and so and so on.
Feb 3, 2025
