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i used to look up to my friends’ older siblings and think wow i can’t wait to become as cool as them one day. then when i became a teen and i was so shy and cared too much about what others thought of me and the rise of social media didn’t help at all. but now i think back at the little diva i was and she would want me to feel confident, to be unique and happy and to keep being kind to others. her opinion is the only one that matters to me now
Feb 8, 2025
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It would be hypocritical from me to say i don’t follow trends, quite the opposite some of them can really be interesting and i ā€œfollowā€ them but i have no desire to fit in. Everyday i embrace my soul, my heart and my mind because it took me years to be the Me of today and as an individual it’s totally normal to be unique in my own way. I am unapologetically myself, no matter how much ā€œtroubleā€ it gets me with people i don’t care. To be put in a box just to fit in or follow the ā€œrulesā€ was never something that i tolerated nor could handle. I value self reliance and resent depending on someone I am selective when it comes to socialising because i prefer being alone than having small talk I question everything to be convinced before i accept it or do it I am assertive, i express my needs, opinions and boundaries even if it means leading to a conflict with someone I dont care about social pressure, i believe anyone can achieve anything at any age I don’t care about approval I am always open to learn new stuff and never afraid to be seen as ā€œuneducatedā€œ during the process I don’t wanna copy. I am me, if i wanna read a kid’a book i will, if i wanna paint a tomato i will, if i wanna learn Russian i will, if i wanna wear a blazer with sweatpants because I think it looks good ON ME i WILL, me is ME and you is YOU. Etc…
Jan 25, 2025
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about two or three months into my new job my coworker told me when i first started she didn’t think i liked her. i asked her why and she said well you seemed cool and confident and sure enough of yourself that you didn’t feel the need to go out of your way to impress or please people. to be honest this was kind of shocking at first because i wasn’t rly sure how they were perceiving me but to be fair i spent those first couple months being so hard on myself to let my personality come through in an authentic way and i guess it worked! i think taking the time to learn and understand yourself is truly a blessing and somewhat a curse but this meant a lot to me
May 24, 2025

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tbh I don’t even remember, quesito means little cheese in spanish, and feo means ugly lmao, I think me and my friend had started calling each other food nicknames, she was ugly little popcorn (palomita fea) now I don’t consider myself ugly lol but the nickname was cute and unique so I kept it
May 21, 2025