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why would you not do something you really want to do because youre by yourself and “its embarrassing”? i can guarantee nobody cares and if they do, so what? it shows that youre confident and able to do things you want to independently, instead of waiting or trying to convince others to do it with you! go to the movies or an event or a play or go to an activity or get ice cream by yourself!!!!
May 21, 2025
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I’ve always been comfortable being by myself places, but it feels especially important during these periods to remind yourself just because you don’t have someone to go with doesn’t mean you shouldnt go see that movie, go to that gallery opening, eat at that restaurant, etc. Even if you don’t have something on the calendar maybe make an excuse to do something just to prove it to yourself!
Apr 3, 2024
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This may be easy for some people but is something I had always struggled with. And it turns out the more I exercise that part of myself, the more I'm loving it. Whether it's the grocery store, a solo lunch date or shopping, I'm going to force myself to go out of my comfort zone and do it alone.
Sep 12, 2023
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sound silly but i realise that my comfort zone is so small when i got so anxious about getting a library membership.
talking to a stranger and telling them what i need and wants make me so vulnerable and i don't know why. and i'm not gonna beat myself over this. i succeed in getting that membership after all and i'm proud of myself.
so yeah .... i guess sometimes stepping out of your comfort zone is about doing the small little things that scares you.
see you in the library ✌🏻
Mar 4, 2024
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i think messy and frizzy curls are the way to go. i grew up with my wavy hair always being tangled and messy, but when i brushed them, they would get super frizzy and wouldn’t go down. i think instead of shaming people for them, saying they look ratty, and making them insecure, we should instead embrace them and acknowledge their natural and raw beauty
May 19, 2025
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sustainable, affordable, and prevents books from being discarded in landfills like lots of items from the thrift are. Especially with how expensive books are becoming, it provides an opportunity for those who dont have access to libraries easily or like physical copies they can have, but cant bring themselves to spend so much on a book. They’re becoming luxuries instead of resources, and its sad
May 18, 2025
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it makes such a difference in attitude. I decided to dress up a little to make sure i do good and have a good day. Usually, i would be miserable but today i feel so great. i think looking good helps you feel and do good. its also just fun being able to experiment. i suggest that everyone tries it sometimes and see how it affects your day!!! have a good day everyone
May 20, 2025