I’ve been teaching myself drums on and off for a year or so. i finally worked up the courage to jam with my (very talented) musician friends. I sucked so bad. but a friend of a friend was in attendance, and he was the only one who laughed along with me instead of cringing out of pity. BE BAD AT STUFF!!! Nonchalance is an epidemic and embracing looking stupid makes people like you a lot more :D