I just really like to know the âstory behind the person.â Iâm definitely a craver of connection and love to find out similarities and differences between me and other people. For example, if someone is wearing something I relate to (like a Celtics jersey), you better believe Iâm going to to say, âGo Celtics! What did you think of the game last night?â I want to know all of the things about all of the people.