I think that reflecting over songs that are ironic to you as a person is very important because it shows that you can be retrospective of who you are and be mindful of how other people think. I have liked the song, Sorority Girls, by Mommy Long Legs for a while, but I started contemplating it more after someone I follow on Instagram used the song for a video to spread some discourse. the person posting the video said that she personally had bad experiences with sorority girls and called attention to its problematic roots of white supremacy. I also had a conversation with my roommates about why there are so many paddles used. while it’s seen as a positive thing for our chapters, it has a history of violence from hazing. it still happens today, and even though it’s more rare, that’s awful. I like being able to question things about my surroundings so I’m self aware of what’s happening. sororities definitely have room to improve and there’s things “right“ and “wrong” with them for sure. I hope that I can be someone that can help my sorority improve even more since it seems to already be on the right track. I do understand the hate for sororities/sorority girls and I want to help change that. I don’t want to make it sound like my sorority is better than other sororities, or I’m better than the other girls in them. I’d rather let actions speak for themselves. I can’t speak as much about fraternities since I’m obviously not in one and I’m not close to anyone who’s in one.