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I have stopped listening and reacting to people who can't speak with respect. They are yelling at you? laugh and leave. They are trying to hurt you? don't cry and leave, don't gift them a reaction, cry later with people you feel safe with or by yourelf. You know that, at the end of the day, they won't change your opinion so why would you waste energy in purposeless fights.
May 8, 2025
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šSave your energy, donāt focus too much on their intentions, actions speak louder than words.
So let them be, never change because you got treated badly, stay nice, treat people good, smile without expecting it in return. some people are just ugly on the inside and you should accept that and move on.
Redefine your boundaries, because not everyone deserves your time.
A lot of people are still projecting their insecurities and have a hard time to just be direct and honest about what they want and need.
I wasted a lot of time and energy trying to save many āfriendshipsā because i appreciated the person but it was not worth, so i will let them be, but that doesnāt mean i will be available once they come back, quite the opposite.
Out of sight out of mind.
If they donāt know your worth, block them, ignore their text, archive the conversation, delete the number.
You know why ? Because one day you will meet people who will show you that whatever you were doing to maintain your previous relationships with people was never too much ! Was never clingy !
Be safe ! Love yourself first and focus on your own growth ! Forget those who did you wrong !
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āļøAfter youāve exhausted your resources, spoken your mind and truth, sometimes all that is left for you to do is smile, say thank you and walk away with dignity. You tried your best to feel seen and understood, and they just donāt get it and thatās okay. There are people that do.
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š±a lot of the time we become so upset, sad, or disappointed in a person or situation that we donāt realize that weāre making it worse, for ourselves at least, by reacting in anger or gloom or resentment. these days, i often tend to ask myself if something is worth stressing over and then take it from there. if it is, i can evaluate my feelings accordingly and if its not, i can then focus on myself and direct my energy towards something that makes me feel good. thatās how i interpret āprotect your peaceā
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