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it's boring but peaceful and liberating. my phone's dry af, but no man is making me nervous or distracting me. ngl there's a tiny part of me that misses the thrill of it all, but i'm getting too old for that. can i just skip to the part where i get married to the man of my dreams and spend the rest of our lives together with cats and bunnies??
Apr 24, 2025
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Feels really liberating to not have my emotions dictated by how one person responds to me. But I’m excited for a crush to potentially come along and ruin my life anyway!
Mar 22, 2025
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I’m generally the type to get obsessed w a total loser who could care less about me and now that I finally decided to move on the sun is shining, the birds are chirping, the day is bright, and I have a skip in my step. Ready to learn how to be cool about it!
Feb 18, 2024
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Having a crush takes over my life!!! It becomes the main thing I think about and I also feel extremely silly. I wear nicer outfits in case I see them, and that's usually when I try out new hairstyles. I become a lot more giddy and giggly and I get so many butterflies that I lose the urge to stress eat and eat just because I'm bored. I also daydream and wonder if they like me back or if I'm overanalyzing every encounter we have.
It's so fun having a crush because it makes my life so much more interesting and exciting, but then I think about it too much a,nd I can't read or watch TV or do anything because it will all remind me of them! Do I wish I had a crush right now? Yes. When I get one, will I wish I didn't have one? Also yes.
Dec 31, 2024
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it's nice. you can go wherever you want, do whatever you want, whenever you feel like it.
today i just felt like eating a big slice of peach earl grey cake and jasmine bergamot basque cheesecake all by myself on a sunday afternoon
Mar 30, 2025
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pi.fyi: a small, vibrant neighborhood filled with laid back people who acknowledge each other's presence and interact with one another
tumblr: a cold, deserted town where the very few people remaining avoid eye contact or stay in their houses
instagram: a big, gentrified, densely populated city full of billboards and noise pollution
Apr 10, 2025
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last night i had a heart-to-heart with a friend/co-worker about our strained friendship. we’d been distancing ourselves from each other for the past year because of some misunderstandings. it made me sad for a while, especially since i was struggling with mental health, so losing a friend felt like a punch in the solar plexus. but then i came to terms with the possibility that we might never talk again, but this acceptance was not out of resentment, just the realization that some friends are not meant to be close friends.
but it all changed yesterday. we didn’t even plan to have that talk, it just came out organically during a casual chat after a long period of no real conversations, just the occasional forced small talk since we see each other at work all the time. this time we talked for hours, like we used to before our falling out, and eventually addressed the elephant in the room. we both realized that we had unknowingly done things that made each other feel unseen and hurt in the past, so we apologized and forgave each other. i’m really glad that we had a heart-to-heart where we could be honest about our feelings without being defensive or blaming each other. it was all about understanding one another, acknowledging our shortcomings, learning from our mistakes, and taking accountability for our actions.
having a heart-to-heart is special. navigating a conflict is uncomfortable, but it’s an opportunity for growth and deeper connection.
Apr 17, 2025