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if you wanna quit, don’t do it because of a bad day. keep going. then when you’re having a good day you can look around and ask yourself if you want to give this up. if the answers yes, then be free!!! if the answers no, then lucky you :) ~~~~~~~
and if you never have a good day…… well then girl RUN!!!! get outta there what the heck!!!!
Apr 23, 2025
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I LOVE QUITTING. I always have. I’ve never understood people who live their lives in misery doing things they don’t want to do. Obviously if there’s something you enjoy don’t quit just because it gets hard. BUT IF YOU HATE IT WALK AWAY. You can always change your mind later. (YES YOU CAN) I have quit too many things to count and quitter was my childhood nickname. Live the life you want today. Try things and quit them.
3d ago
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because sometimes quitting is winning.
Jan 27, 2024
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please let us be free from the commodification of the data generated from our social, whimsical, and sincere, free expression
the sincerity of this app is because it’s different from those other apps :/ why do we need metrics on how we socialize? 😮💨😮💨
i’m curious as much as i am sad about the decision to make the star count visible. is that what its proper name is? or are we calling it likes? 👀
Apr 23, 2025
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to me being perfectly imperfect means sincerely expressing the full range of human emotions in community with all y’all
the positive and negative and every emotion in-between
living is messy, thanks for witnessing my mess
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i've been seeing piffies posting about, and I myself, have experienced The Yearn.
i've sat with my feelings about relationships through many seasons. i was with someone for 10 yrs, we got engaged, i broke it off. although he was an incredible person, he was not my soulmate. i've had a few relationships since then and have felt The Yearn.
after being dumped this weekend i have some thoughts to ask myself when looking at dating / The Yearn.
1 -- are you seeking connection or attention?
2 -- is your relationship an excuse for you to not work on other parts of yourself you know you need to take time to face?
3 -- how are your friendships? do you have people behind you that will see you through any season? keep those people around FOREVER. maybe marry them instead.... lmao 😳
4 -- have you dated yourself? was it full of joy and love?
5 -- can you (within reason - we can NOT exist and heal with out each other) meet your own needs and care for yourself?
6 -- how honest are you with yourself? you'll only ever be able to be that honest with other people, no matter the relationship.
7 -- are you just trying to follow a story arc that you *think* you *should* follow? see link: relationship escalator
my goals right now are to build up a family of people that will be with me forever! it's not a ton of people but it's enough! if i find a "soulmate" or "love of my life" along the way then like... nice 😃👍 but like that's not my GOAL. if you are young and reading this, i wish i knew in my 20s (am 31) what i am writing in this post. i g2g tho ~ ily, be well!
Mar 17, 2025