I change my appearance multiple times a year. I cut my hair and dye it. I try new styles. I get tattoos and piercings. I try new food. I do things for ME. I want to find my true self and interests and each day I get closer to who I really want to be. I feel I learn something new about myself everyday even if itโs small. (Iโm depressed + anxious too and it can be so hard but I remind myself that I canโt care about everyone else and their opinions I need to do what is right for me. and no it is not selfish to do things for you).