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You know in Bridget Jones’s Diary how she had her pals over for her birthday? She made an iconically bad meal of marmalade, blue soup, and caperberry gravy, and they all enjoyed it because they loved her. There’s something so wonderful about setting out to have people over for your big day, cooking a nice meal, including a homemade cake. I love dining out as much as you would think! I also love cooking and baking, being able to pick the music, having everyone in cozy clothes, and sending everyone home with slices of cake.
10/10 i highly recommend doing your birthday DIY at home.
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Apr 12, 2025

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happy birthday ! ♥️♥️♥️
Apr 12, 2025
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happy birthday ! ♥️♥️♥️
Apr 12, 2025
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Happy Birthday! Thanks 4 being born and sharing your day with us.
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Happy birthday
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Beautiful. Happy birthday!
Apr 12, 2025
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Happy birthday but I think that’s the second most important thing here — THOSE FRAMES ARE INCREDIBLE AND YOU ARE OWNING THEM
Apr 12, 2025
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we need more gatherings like this where you can play dj for the whole day without anyone saying a thing
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@MARMOSET i insisted we listen to the MJ Lenderman album TWICE.
Apr 12, 2025
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@MARMOSET which one? please say the one with someone get the grill out of the rain
Apr 12, 2025
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@MARMOSET nooo it was Manning Fireworks!
Apr 12, 2025
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yes! I've only done this once at my own place so far but it was an absolute delight!
Apr 12, 2025
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HBD, fellow Aries Queen! It’s the best season ;) beautiful cake!
Apr 12, 2025
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happy birthday!!
Apr 12, 2025
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happy birthday friend!!
Apr 12, 2025
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Happy birthday!! 🎂
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Happy birthday! 🥳
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Happy birthday queen!!!!
Apr 12, 2025

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