No way, he’s totally trying to manipulate you emotionally. Unless he was already hanging out with said BFF before you broke up this is a toxic ass sitch and if they’re a real one they’ll hear you and not hang with him. Best case scenario is they hang and you’re REALLY uncomfortable when you talk with them, WORST case scenario I dare not say out loud. Yeah this is not good or reasonable, I’d crash out
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I thought so too, he tried calling me again this morning but I didn't answer, he then texted me saying " you didn't answer last night , just wanted to say I love you and don't get angry" , I didn't reply.
Apr 9, 2025
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@REN__AA my friend, if its seriously over he shouldn’t be able to text you at all, it might be time to block him
Apr 9, 2025

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i feel like there’s such an all or nothing culture around friendship these days — what it really comes down to is: do you feel comfortable continuing to have this person in your life? is it always going to be nagging at the back of your mind that they might not respect u/ur relationship? you don’t have to make a decision right now! but going forward it’s something to keep in mind — if I were you I might not trust this person with vulnerable information, I would be less emotionally invested in them, and I would be extra skeptical of their words/actions. but maybe they’re still fun to hang out with sometimes; I don’t think that’s a crime. although I would def keep them away from boyfriend. does it mean you never have to speak to them again? no — unless you find yourself worrying about it and resenting them! in that case you’re totally justified to move on with your life without them in it. ultimately I think boyfriend should say to (sober) friend hey that was super uncool and don’t do that again. it shouldn’t be your responsibility to deal with this. idk tho that’s just my onion 💯
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Have you ever had someone choose you after bonding over a shared event, thinking you’re everything they want, but when they find out you’re not, they ignore it until they can’t anymore? So, they then try and ask you to change your personality, but when that doesn’t work, they get upset at you, put the pressure of saving the whole friendship on your actions, and then break off your 4 year long friendship by ghosting you?
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Provided it wasn't a toxic relationship.
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