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Really ? You can’t do this alone ? You need support ? You need comfort ? You need help ? Company ? You feel guilty for being needy ?
Is that how you treat yourself ? What a foolish belief. Did you just scrutinize your need for another ? Is that fair ? To anyone ? Ever ?
Apr 6, 2025
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Recently I had a vivid, visceral flashback to the kind of exhaustion I experienced on a daily basis during my last two relationships. I remembered how I couldn't provide my partner with what they needed, and vice-versa. And it clicked for me: I need my independence way more than I need a relationship.
Apr 17, 2025
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ask yourself these questions: Why are you unable to live a fulfilling life without a relationship? Do you not have hobbies, friendships, purpose in your life as it is?
I say this as someone who's been single for three years: Thank God I don't have to share a bed with someone else, Thank God I can have the weekly alone time I need to recover my sanity, Thank God I don't have to negotiate or justify anything with anyone else.
Feb 27, 2025
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I’m really tired of people saying “I just need to focus on myself”. “I have to stop people pleasing“. And other similar things to defend why they bail out of plans/ don’t text back/ don’t show curiosity or care towards me.
Being too inwardly focused isn’t the way to feel better or to heal. Being in community, being reliable, being emotionally available is the way to feel better! Blowing people off because “self care” is shortsighted and mean spirited.
Jun 23, 2024
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Seeing your “to do’s” events or reminders as a physical part of your space is a good method to get to it.
Mar 3, 2025
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Pro Tip : Use the “ Replacement of habit“ skill to cause change to occur. Once that happened, immediately follow up with “ Dazzling curiosity“ for most efficiency.
Mar 4, 2025