It’s building character in a painfully slow but sure way… cut off a foot of hair and have panic attacks once a day about it and I promise your life will change one way or another. In time it will be good and you will laugh about it without crying:)
for some it might be lonely loser behavior but i promise you it’s so funnnn, i just watched nosferatu and felt renovated, joyous and with a particular lust for life, give it a try!
everyone is always so scared of seeming desperate but its better to be annoying or be perceived as such than not doing what you intended to do out of shame of being seen