Rec | THE COMFORT & GENUINE EXCITEMENT IN ROMANCE

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the comfort & genuine excitement in romance

for me, lesbian romance feels both comfortable and exciting in the best way. i don’t feel like im doing a performance in the same way i did when i was trying to date men, and it feels both easy and ever expanding. it’s like a big exhale, culminating in a lot of little moments. however you end up identifying, i hope you enjoy the path there and are happy 💙

@bigstrongguy

Mar 30, 2025

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@eatgraeps

Hey thank you for this!! Dating men feels like im being hunted for sport so this is great insight actually

Mar 30, 2025

@bigstrongguy

@EATGRAEPS i really, really resonate with that! i thought the acute anxiety i felt was just how dating goes, but it turns out i really don’t feel that anymore. feels like i’ve unlocked what my romantic self actually looks like. i’m glad it was helpful in some way!

Mar 30, 2025

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