1) my high school is the center of a Netflix documentary. It’s not good. 2) my mom was in the army and in Germany the same exact time Jeffrey Dahmer was. She was taken in and assessed where he was stationed, but she was not in his regime. my brother and i only found this out a few months ago and we told her about it. she was very distraught 3) my great uncle was in an acapella group that was sampled in Young Thug’s “I Know There’s Gonna Be”. Never met him before he passed though. 4) there is a house music singer named Barbara Tucker who i listened to as a kid. Her song “Beautiful People” got me through some times in high school. Turns out her father was in the same group as my great uncle. I contacted her last summer to ask about him and she even gave me her number (but I’m just gonna respect her privacy). She’s a lovely woman 😂
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