Met the love of my life on Tindr and while I cannot in good conscience recommend Tindr, I had good results. I just wish more people had the "relationship" mentality and not the "situationship" mentality.
Feb 27, 2025
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Controversial opinion I know, but i met my partner on tinder (we’d actually already met 6 months earlier when we played a gig together but he thought I hated him hahaha). The aspiration is that you’re supposed to meet someone irl, but for me and many other people that’s difficult because of disability. I’m just not in the world as much as others, and dating apps have allowed me to still have romance and sex etc throughout my disability. I think this has helped me see the benefit in dating apps - putting people across your path that you wouldnt otherwise stumble into, and also to match with people you already kind of know so you now know you fancy each other! My sister met her husband on POF (a site rather than an app, but still), because he wasn’t from here so didn’t know many people, and they’d never have met otherwise as he’s an introvert, but a very loving and helpful husband! So yes, if it’s not fun stop using it, if you’re using it to replace other connection stop using it, but if you want to use it as a tool to meet people you wouldn’t otherwise, discover new places in the city, or discover that person you bumped into actually fancied you back, I think go for it.
Apr 12, 2024
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I've Found there’s something so sad about meeting people with the explicit expectation of romance. i feel like I’ve lost the chance to be friends with some really cool people simply because we met on dating apps and tried and failed to date. Good People are everywhere, especially in cities, no need to force the hand of fate.
Apr 12, 2024
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When I was in my 20s and Single I’d go on a Tinder date every Friday, no exceptions. Didn’t matter how long we were talking on the app, or even if I wasn’t 100% sure they were the same vibe as me, as long as they were willing to meet as well. Very trial and error approach to dating and I came out of it with a lot of funny stories and got to know myself better.
Mar 24, 2025
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Why are they so funny. I also like the experiment that one guy did to see if people reacted kindly to him being mean to his homunculus or if they liked when he was nice.
Feb 27, 2025
It's the song that plays at Marshall's dad's funeral in HIMYM and it's a good one
Feb 28, 2025
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I yearn for the cracker barrel front porch
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