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i’ve distanced my self so much from what’s considered normal or traditional, honestly just to be a contrarian and live my niche kitschy life, but now i’m so used to being outside the norm, that now when i want to experience new/ different things, i do the most normal shit ever.
idk if it’s human nature, or just the beauty of life in general, but this experience has truly shown me that i can really be anything i want.
Feb 26, 2025
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I always felt alienated from people for not quite fitting in and all I ever wanted was to be normal. My therapist told me that there’s no such thing and that I shouldn’t compare myself to other people in that way because no two people have the same experiences, which felt like condescending gaslighting to me at the time but I’ve come to believe she was right.
Instead of chasing unattainable normalcy, I’ve started to see myself as extraordinary—out of the ordinary. It’s empowering to embrace my idiosyncratic nature and recognize that my peculiarities are what make me unique. So if you’ve ever felt out of place, remember: being extraordinary means you’re living a life that only you can live 🥹
Oct 21, 2024
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THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS NORMAL. Stop trying to be something that you are not, stop trying to be copy-paste <insert substyle that you do not even really like you just don't know who you are if you are not following a trend> for the longest time, I had no identity, I didn't know who I was outside of micro-trends and what was popping off on the internet. I wanted so badly to be normal that everything I tried was slowly but surely killing my spirit. People are clay. We are covered in little fingerprints, little specks of dust, and pieces of lint. No one person is without these things. Normalcy implies that there is a standard, uniform way to mold clay. You can never be normal, and that is so beautiful that's what makes life so worth it. I tried so long to figure out the "normal" way to live life that I missed out on so many things my teenage years are over, and they flew past me. I spent so long trying to be a normal teenager that I forgot that the most important part of this age is trying to figure out who you are by yourself through your actions, through your memories, and through the people around you, not by following what is normal. I will never be normal, and I am so grateful, I will always be ME. My spirit will be unique. My mind will remain creative. I will never be normal, and I don't want to be.
Feb 22, 2025
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Honestly I feel like I’ve reached this stage in my life where overthinking has literally become a part of my personality. It seems to have taken over so much of who I could become and if I’m being fr, it’s not it lol.
I am actively trying to be nonchalant and, it has been helping me? like i feel so free lol. I just really want to be able to be my truest self without feeling so much, is that so much to ASK for🥹🙂↔️
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guys sincerity is the best in all senses of life, when ur abel to be fully sincere with urself, the people around yo, your emotions and such, life truly becomes simple.
after beings sincere with my self, i was able to push myself out of my comfort zone, i got unconfortable, an feeling like that is what let me to learn new things about myself and the world in general.
because how ive grown up, ive always forever since i can remember i had lived in a lie world where things never truly felt real, idk if its my frontal lobe developing or what, but ever since ive let my self be sincere with my emotions, and FEEL what I AM FEELING the world has been more full of wonder, and i feel able to become fascinated by anything.
anyways, good night tri state area
Feb 20, 2025
hello guys, first post here, very excited and happy to see what interesting things i find here, today i wanted to share with you an egg sandwich i tend to make on the morning that it's insanely tiktok pilled and tiktok food recipe video type shit. i kinda hate what tiktok food recepies symbolice and what they can do to ethnic cusines and such, but also i am a super victim of that lol. anyways heres todays breakfast.
might post the recipe to it later, maybe, idk, idk what can we talk about here or what we cant hehe lol #newgirl #smallgirlvsthebigcity #lol
Feb 18, 2025