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Reminder that most of what we do is a performance
Feb 24, 2025

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I stay true to myself at work… like a Tim Robinson character.
Feb 25, 2025
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nirad eating a hot dog up your sleeve at home too, respect
Feb 25, 2025
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when i’m at my most vulnerable 💔
Feb 25, 2025
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i once dated an ecuadorean guy (we both spoke spanish) who worked as an english interpreter and the first time i heard his english work voice it was traumatising like i did not know that man was inside you santiago who are you
Feb 25, 2025
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babita la doble vida!
Feb 25, 2025
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Shadowbeni que miedo!!
Feb 25, 2025
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life is my stage & my work voice is my costume
Feb 25, 2025
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due to the fact that I can’t stand the thought of this I have resulted to either never changing my voice and speaking how I normally do, or simply hiring/tagging somebody in to perform on my behalf. I refuse to live within the code switch system! (I also just suck at it)
Feb 24, 2025
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violetjc
Feb 24, 2025
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My boss’ tween daughter once heard me on the phone and when I hung up she said: So that’s what’s like being and adult? When I asked what she meant, she replied: Being fake. That’s not how you talk.
Feb 24, 2025
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I’m so baffled by work culture like everyone is being fake and knows that everyone else is being fake and neither person enjoys being fake or particularly wants to be around another fake person so why does nobody stop???
Feb 24, 2025
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imkhushi Cause then if any party involved stops being fake, the gestapo (HR) gets involved and puts a black bag over ya head and you never come back.
Feb 24, 2025
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Greenelysium oh right sorry
Feb 24, 2025
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I work with children so it would just be me screaming at the top of my lungs and talking like a sportscaster to get over their volume. A lot of my friends work desk jobs or quite voice jobs but I think they would be surprised how much of the day I’m literally yelling
Feb 24, 2025
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I got that sorry to bother you corporate hr high pitch voice on the phone, and then when I hang up I just retreat back into a lower baritone lightskin voice with a Michael Keaton cadence.
Feb 24, 2025

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