google a list of 'classic cocktails' and try and find something that strikes your fancy. it really depends on the type of bar you visit, but more upscale places should be able to make any of the 'classics' despite them often not being on the menu.
But besides that, you should try a Moscow Mule if you haven't. It's a simple, tasty drink you can get at basically any bar.
oh, one last thing, if the bar is empty, chat with the bartender and ask what they think!
Feb 23, 2025
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here is what I like to drink, any kind of semi nice or cocktail focused bar should have these ingredients on hand
my favorite with gin: the last word - gin, maraschino, chartreuse, lime, a cherry garnish
with rum: jungle bird - rum, Campari, pineapple, lime, simple syrup, pineapple to garnish
with tequila: matador - tequila, dry vermouth, orange curaçao, grapefruit peel oils squeezed on top
Feb 22, 2024
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You may even get something ~not on the menu~
Feb 5, 2024
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usually i will just get a vodka soda but if it's a special night i love a mojito, margarita, or a dirty martini... love a mimosa/bellini always... piña collada or daiquiri when extra special!! also starting to get into gimlets
Feb 22, 2024
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don't just consider the benefits of adulthood, dream about having a full-time job, starting something new, taking care of yourself, running errands, etc. let it be something you really look forward to. it's much less scary that way
Feb 23, 2025
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try going to a local library once a week, or a gym, a museum, a thrift store, cafe, etc. if you find you like the vibe of a certain place, hang out there and be pleasant with the employees, after a while, they will remember you and will likely chat with you
this is more of a method to get used to talking to people, of course an employee is getting paid to talk to you, but in my own experience, i love taking to regulars!
Feb 24, 2025
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i honestly don't know if this is a good idea or not, but when you're feeling like there's no one in the world that could possibly love you, try thinking that everyone is secretly in love with you. and the truth is, there is likely someone in your life that has/had/or will have feelings for you but might not ever tell you. think about the people in your life that you've had feelings for, but you hadn't told.
and if you are like me, someone looking for love, feeling loved makes you all the more confident in finding that love, but don't listen to someone like me, i've never been in love
xoxo
Mar 11, 2025