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Being a cheapskate and a hedonist
I have arbitrary amounts in my head for how much I think things should cost which become increasingly delusional as inflation continues to skyrocket. These dollar amounts are so low that you would think that I’m somebody’s grandfather from the Great Depression, but I do my best to hold the line. I like to buy items that are open-box returns, refurbished, or used, and sort low to high is my lifeline. I want to get a good value for the price that I pay and I’m always obsessed with finding a deal. That said, I indulge far too much in costly food, drink, and other earthly pleasures—it’s about finding balance in that tension between restraint and surrender.
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@taterhole
Feb 23, 2025
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@lucius
perfect term for this
Feb 24, 2025
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@darice
wait ive been living like thjs without knowing how to describe it .. tysm for articulating this idea so well hehe
Feb 23, 2025
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@taterhole
darice you are WELCOME!!! 🤗
Feb 23, 2025
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@regularcucumber
This is how I’m living too! I buy secondhand everything and ball out on great food and concert tickets. For me it’s partially about sustainability too.
Feb 23, 2025
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@taterhole
regularcucumber absolutely I feel like it’s a much more responsible way to live and it reduces waste and makes purchases more thoughtful !!!!
Feb 23, 2025
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@theclack
regularcucumber Exactly this
Feb 23, 2025
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@Doll
It’s as if you’re in my brain. I still think things cost the same as when I was a little munchkin, sadly it’s not but I’ll always look for a way to save money but ill hang out with friends n go eat multiple times a week while not caring about the high cost. I like that even while I hate how expensive things are I hate the thought of missing out on memories just because of money even more.
Feb 23, 2025
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@taterhole
Doll 🤝 you are wise beyond your years my dear carry this with you
Feb 23, 2025
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