I get a weird feeling when someone says theyāre āobsessedā with someone. I feel like it opens up the door to someone mistreating you because they know youāll let it slide because you canāt live without them. Yes you can love someone with everything, but donāt lose who you are in the name of keeping your obsession happy. Speak up when things arenāt right. If they moving funny, man shit, if a joke goes too far, address it immediately and speak your truth. I believe words have power and obsessed is just something Iām not willing to use all willy nilly.