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I got rejected twice haha—so I took myself on a solo date instead! Went to a candle-lit Valentine’s Concerto, and most of those who attended were couples.
Before, I used to feel envious of couples, but tonight, I super enjoyed witnessing lovebirds swaying to the sound of a string quartet on top of Manila’s old heritage building.
My key takeaway here is never wait for others to experience beautiful things. It takes courage to do this, but I won’t waste my life being so low just because I’m solo.
And if you see beautiful people together, don’t take it as envy ~~ take it as a sign that love exists, and that it can exist for you too.
S/o to Justin, this could’ve been you, but oh well—I’m gonna date myself instead.
Before, I used to feel envious of couples, but tonight, I super enjoyed witnessing lovebirds swaying to the sound of a string quartet on top of Manila’s old heritage building.
My key takeaway here is never wait for others to experience beautiful things. It takes courage to do this, but I won’t waste my life being so low just because I’m solo.
And if you see beautiful people together, don’t take it as envy ~~ take it as a sign that love exists, and that it can exist for you too.
S/o to Justin, this could’ve been you, but oh well—I’m gonna date myself instead.
Feb 16, 2025
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💌Though some people might find this kind of depressing I actually see it as the opposite. It’s really been a while since I’ve done this but I see it necessary to go on a date with yourself once in a while. Go to a cafe, take a walk without any destination in mind, or you might as well go to the cinema on your own.
More than an act of self love I perceive it as a way to embrace solitude and get to know yourself more; It brings so much inner peace and helps to heal that part of yourself that finds loneliness daunting. There is a beauty in everything and solitude is not the exception.
More than an act of self love I perceive it as a way to embrace solitude and get to know yourself more; It brings so much inner peace and helps to heal that part of yourself that finds loneliness daunting. There is a beauty in everything and solitude is not the exception.
Oct 7, 2024
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☕“Who are you when you’re not performing for the people in your mind”
What to do when you’ve been stuck behind a desk all day, everyone’s unavailable, and you’re craving a coffee or a walk in the park?
With the business of life, and consuming nature of the fleeting hour, we cannot help but find ourselves submitting to the mundane cycle of living ordinarily. We find ourselves following the same routine, and loosing ourselves within them. Whether striking up a conversation with a fellow solo diner at a restaurant or exchanging smiles with strangers in a bustling park, I discovered the joy of genuine human connection outside the confines of traditional dating dynamics by simply taking myself in a date.
Solo dating has been a transformative journey for me, offering a sanctuary from the noise of everyday life and allowing me to truly discover who I am when I'm not performing for the people in my mind. Initially, the idea of dating myself seemed foreign, even daunting. At first, it was simply an excuse to account for the bustle of life, and how difficult it is to make plans with people. But as I embarked on this adventure, I realized its profound impact on my well-being and personal growth.
It provided me with invaluable alone time, free from the pressures of social expectations. It became a refuge from feelings of loneliness and isolation, offering moments of genuine connection with myself. Through solo dates, whether it was exploring a new hiking trail, savoring a meal at a cozy café, or simply enjoying a quiet evening with a book, I cultivated a deeper sense of self-awareness and contentment.
Peel back the layers of self-doubt and societal expectations to reveal your authentic self beneath the facade—and take yourself on a date or two.
What to do when you’ve been stuck behind a desk all day, everyone’s unavailable, and you’re craving a coffee or a walk in the park?
With the business of life, and consuming nature of the fleeting hour, we cannot help but find ourselves submitting to the mundane cycle of living ordinarily. We find ourselves following the same routine, and loosing ourselves within them. Whether striking up a conversation with a fellow solo diner at a restaurant or exchanging smiles with strangers in a bustling park, I discovered the joy of genuine human connection outside the confines of traditional dating dynamics by simply taking myself in a date.
Solo dating has been a transformative journey for me, offering a sanctuary from the noise of everyday life and allowing me to truly discover who I am when I'm not performing for the people in my mind. Initially, the idea of dating myself seemed foreign, even daunting. At first, it was simply an excuse to account for the bustle of life, and how difficult it is to make plans with people. But as I embarked on this adventure, I realized its profound impact on my well-being and personal growth.
It provided me with invaluable alone time, free from the pressures of social expectations. It became a refuge from feelings of loneliness and isolation, offering moments of genuine connection with myself. Through solo dates, whether it was exploring a new hiking trail, savoring a meal at a cozy café, or simply enjoying a quiet evening with a book, I cultivated a deeper sense of self-awareness and contentment.
Peel back the layers of self-doubt and societal expectations to reveal your authentic self beneath the facade—and take yourself on a date or two.
Apr 18, 2024
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Took myself out on a solo date, part of a monthly challenge to try something fun and new on my own.
Would recommend getting to know yourself.
Jul 2, 2025
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🎂It’s my birthday! 🥳 And there’s no better place to announce it than here—PI.FYI just feels like a big group hug, and somehow, announcing my birthday here feels safe and kinda lovely. 🫶
Another year of getting influenced by all of you (from the simple stuff to the cool stuff), and honestly, life just feels richer because of this place. 💙 Big love to @TYLER for creating the best corner of the internet!! I LOVE U AND PI.FYI 🤟✨
Another year of getting influenced by all of you (from the simple stuff to the cool stuff), and honestly, life just feels richer because of this place. 💙 Big love to @TYLER for creating the best corner of the internet!! I LOVE U AND PI.FYI 🤟✨