and it DOES matter. if you know who you are, what you stand for, pursue what you enjoy, and generally just approach life and others with openness and humility you’re gonna attract folks who vibe with your way of being
imagine you're the love interest in a movie, or better yet, the one who distracts from the love interest because they're just that seductive- the physical aspects of being hot will come to you in time. be spontaneous.
