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ice cream cake

my parents would never buy me one so i buy myself one every year to compensate other than that i do whatever i feel like that day, which usually ends up with me taking a long walk/wondering round. i dont really tell ppl when its my birthday cause im uncomfortable with the expectation of having to perform/celebrate from both parties so if i do want to spend it with someone ill keep quiet and just enjoy the time with them. i say spend the day doing what makes you happy and see where it takes u

@okwetuu_fish

Jan 7, 2025

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going solo on your birthday

my partner is overseas so i’m embracing spending my birthday alone today and indulging in little luxuries i.e. morning walk to grab my fave iced latte, making a fancy breakfast, getting dressed nice just for me, maybe taking myself out to dinner later. happy birthday to me!

@milkbags

May 21, 2024

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Bringing someone a cake

For the past year or so I’ve tried to surprise as many people as I can with a birthday cake on their special day.  I can safely say it is the easiest, most rewarding thing you can do to show your gratitude that someone else exists. You only have to do it once a year, but they’ll remember it.

@kj

Oct 31, 2023

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be a little weird

i feel like social media has made us so self-aware of our actions/habits/behaviors. we are thinking of what is cool or trendy or desirable. we are too afraid to be cringe! to be stupid! to be lame! the best community i have found is the people who are not afraid to like what they like & are proud of it. do the stuff you always wanted to try. the people will follow.

@tobabygirl

Nov 24, 2024

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bagel+egg+cheese

it is the greatest breakfast (or lunch/dinner, if you’re like me) meal combo ever. i stg it has healing properties

@tobabygirl

Nov 30, 2024

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journaling!

this is only a habit i have picked up in the last year, but it has made a world of difference. i will write about things that i am thinking about or stuff i need to do or just chronicle my day. i just find it very grounding or like a reset to my thought processes.

@tobabygirl

Nov 25, 2024