IN
-creativity
-chai-der
-routines
-movement breaks
-cultivating wonder
-community organizing
-live theater
-budgeting
-making strange acquaintances
-picking up interesting rocks
-introspection
-having a laugh with friends
-baths
-the elderly
OUT
-looksmaxxing
-directing self-hatred outward
-people-pleasing
-remembering past G.P.A.s
-curated vintage t-shirts
-booktok
-using therapy speak to gossip
-identical bridesmaid dresses
-listening to playlists for nostalgia purposes
-intermittent fasting
-playing things by ear
take note: more things are in than out!
not finished…
ins ~
• personal style
• being upfront
• live music
• physical media
• crafts/personalizing everything
• trusting your intuition
• blue eyeshadow (in a 1960s way)
• niche playlists
• talking to strangers
• pocket-sized notebooks
• pattern mixing
• spontaneous trips
• messy hair
• doing it for the memoir
outs ~
• being late
• black and white mentality
• being embarrassed
• oversharing
• toxic friendships
• diet soda
• vaping
• impulsive shopping
• dating apps
• letting myself spiral
• doing it for the plot
• fear of being perceived
Ins: closet liquidation, healthcare, sleep schedules, switching it up, being mysterious and esoteric while retaining whimsy
Outs: oversharing, t-shirts, alcohol, indecision, being scared of books, spending money for no reason
We are perfectly similar yet different enough that we never get sick of each other. He’s my proof of love at first sight even if I was too skeptical at the exact moment we met. Looking back that is what it was. We understand each other in ways beyond words and it’s been perfect since day one! We are definitely made for each other.
This photo is one of my favorites that I took of him recently. Idk why just something about it is lovely to me like it’s nostalgic for a time that I haven’t lived through