For starters, don’t do anything right now. Don’t do anything at all. Don’t try to talk to them about it, don’t break up, do nothing. You need to make sure whatever you do, it’s not a reaction from the hurt and embarrassment you feel right now.
I don’t know the specifics of your situation, so I’ll try to keep my advice general. Talk to the most level headed person you know about the issue, what you’re feeling and ask them what they think. Whatever they think, you need to decide if you’re willing to stay with someone who doesn’t like you the way you like them. It’s unlikely that you’ll be able to “convince“ them to like you more. If you do want to stay with them, consider taking a step back from the relationship and giving only as much effort as you’re given.
As for feeling better, try going out with some friends and just hanging out. You need to remind yourself that you are a kind and interesting person that people like to be with. Anyways I hope you feel better :)
Jan 11, 2025
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thanks for your words it does really help me and also makes me happy to realize social media is not that bad!
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As someone who is maybe 2ish connections removed from the situation Im assuming you may be referring to… I am so deeply sorry 💔 hope you know that there are many strangers out there who are rooting for you and think you deserve to be happy and treated well, despite being strangers …
As someone who has been through a lot of heartbreak, the advice already given in previous comments is really great . I think in my experience, having 1 or 2 friends that you know really love you and get you, that you can spend time with even if you are really sad and not contributing much, was helpful. If you feel the need to talk about your feelings try to keep it to those people, or a journal. Once you start to feel a little better going out with more people and being more social can really help remind you of what is valuable about YOU.. what YOU enjoy and bring to the world..
Above all it helped me to remind myself that life is going to go on. You will move on, no matter how long it might take. It might feel like the worst thing in the world but i promise you will get through it. It’s just a matter of time :) be kind to yourself while time passes. I cant emphasize enough how deeply I have felt so heartbroken I thought I couldnt go on. Multiple times. Yet here I am.. and you will be okay too ❤️
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going out with friends, seeing family, etc. might sound like too much for your body and mind during this time but i have always found it much too hard to Not think about people i've lost when i'm alone. dont let yourself fall into a trap of loneliness just because that's what you're feeling. surround yourself with others who love you (there are plenty!) whenever feasible. talk to them about it, or dont; whatever you think will help you. there have always been moments when i am with loved ones after a breakup when i can go even just 5 extra minutes without thinking about it than i would have sitting at home by myself, which is valuable even if you start thinking about it again immediately after. i dont suggest this in. a "just dont think about it" way, as that is impossible and silly, but i do think it helps to speed along the healing process. love is like a home remedy and u still have it all around u. hang in there!!!!
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there’s so many different things going through your mind when a breakup happens and i don’t think there’s this one thing that will make it go away faster, but you can try focusing on yourself and things you like...you can find new hobbies, new friends, new places!
Cause yeah, you’re single now and it kinda sucks but it wont suck forever lol
idk what im saying, but bottom line is it gets better the more you put love towards yourself instead of them, you’ll realize how much more you deserve.
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