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I love that a new year means a clean slate. a waking opportunity to start anew, or at least feel like you are. That it's the first stab at whatever your intention is. it's a reminder that we aren't our last year, nor the one before. We won't even be defined by what comes this year, but we can keep pushing ourselves into the path we most desire. We can keep being empathetic and patient with our journeys, celebrate the wins and learn from the losses. Taking things as they come, soaking it all in and cherishing the people that make it special - that's what counts. Happy New Year:)
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you really couldn't pay me to relive this year. but the lessons im taking away from it were more than necessary, even if they had to be forcefully taught to me over and over. first lesson: the simplest things are hardest to understand.
like being your own best friend. or to not give others too much of your time. to look after and love yourself before even thinking of doing the same for others. to walk away from friendships you've lost with a renewed desire to use all that new time being with yourself instead. not just on your phone but really getting to know yourself. that people come and go in life and you are the only one you have forever so have love and kindness and patience for yourself the way you do for others. things that sound simple right?! that keeping yourself busy and putting off your emotions will only make them bigger. that you can only love someone and know someone as much as you love and know yourself. to make moves in silence so they're actually accomplished. not to wish ill on others even jokingly. not every problem needs to be confronted immediately, decisions can be dwelled on. it's good to sit and think. even when it hurts not to, don't argue with others. again, its okay to sit and think those thoughts instead. reflection hurts and sometimes hurt is needed. go on more walks. face more of your fears. don't forget to freaking write in your journal everyday so that when you DO write it's not about how "damn".. you haven't written in so long. throw stuff out. eat more fruit. Post less, worry less about time. stop regretting everything. actually read the books you borrow. everything in moderation. don't skip a meal and work before play (im a grown adult saying this) take a deep breath once in awhile. a clean house is a clean mind. making your bed feels real good. the simplest things are the hardest to get. i hope to go through more painfully difficult things in 2025 that i think i won't possibly get over until i do.. happy new years âđâËâčâĄ
Jan 1, 2025
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like... seriously. what's the harm in believing that everything will work out? obviously shit happens and there's definitely a chance things won't end up going your way, but what good does believing that serve you? does believing you won't succeed make your life better in any way? just want to think with more intention this year.. being more aware of how my thought patterns seep into my actions and behavior. it's so obvious, but it really is the simplest things that take the most time and effort to really understand..
i'd rather take on my life through a more optimistic lens than constantly expecting the worst, digging myself into a hole of self-pity and misery
Jan 7, 2025
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i can no longer waste time borrowing pain from my past and future selves
im here and im real and im okay right now, thats all that matters :)
Feb 12, 2025
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31 minutos is a Chilean kids TV program made with puppets, but calling it that completely understates its epicness. Think Sesame Street, but after 2 whiskey sours and 3 puffs of a sativa joint. Itâs a complete head high: hilariously wacky, totally irreverent while still managing to be educational - often raising awareness on environmental issues, a hallmark of Chilean culture. The showstopper though? The segment where they rank fake music videos, a funny nod to how awesomely bad 2000s music videos could be. I used to watch it as a kid but recently started rewatching it and can appreciate it so much more now that Iâm older and catch the creatorâs stoner-like humor. Itâs like talking to that cool aunt that was always so ahead of the curve and you just, like, totally get her now.
Dec 17, 2024
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what's more difficult: enduring fake airpods, or shelling out hard-earned cash to buy yourself quality earbuds? for an extremely frugal person (aka brokie) such as myself, the latter can be so daunting. however, carrying a pair of fake airpods which sounded like complete dogshit (hence why i instantly named them: Foop pods) was a lowpoint. it only got worse when the right side stopped working, so I was running on half a sound system for my ears during my 2 month solo stint in Europe earlier this year - yikes indeed.
enough was enough, i knew something had to be done. my eyes were set on noise cancelling headphones since i know the true power they hold. i lost a pair of bose QC45's (RIP) at the airport at end of last year, so the bar for shutting the world out was set pretty high. after some intense googling and a few suspiciously on-point targeted ads, i landed on the new airpods 4 with ANC. the lack of silicon cups - unlike the airpods 2 - improved technology featuring faster bluetooth connection and richer sound were all the green flags I needed. the price though? not exactly music to my ears.
thanks to capitalist western culture, black friday means the price-match fiends come out to play. this holiday season was no exception. armed with Amazon.com pulled up on my phone, i walked into Target feeling like this was a stick-up. my weapon of choice? a 22% discounted listing for the airPods 4. no violence necessaryâjust a polite conversation with the nice lady at the counter. and to my delight, she applied the discount.
the moment i walked out, i sat on a nearby bench and gave them a spin and boy oh boy... going from fake ass 'noise cancellation' to the real fricking deal? soul-stirring to say the least. music just hits different when the rest of the world shuts the hell up. but even beyond ANC, getting a true transparency mode experience was also mind-blowing. being able to hear your surroundings thanks to the built-in microphones makes me feel like i got superpowers - and definitely helps offset the tinnitus i'm lowkey getting from standing next to speakers at parties.
those Foop pods? may they rest in peace. the airPods 4 with ANC might be expensive, but trust me, they're one of the greatest investments you can make for your mental health. straight up.
Dec 17, 2024
i watched this movie recently called Gangubai Kathiawadi, a 2022 Indian film set in 1960s India. it follows Gangubai, a sex worker (tragically forced into the life) who fightsâand succeedsâin advocating for the rights of other sex workers. beyond its incredible message and the compelling performance of the lead actress, one thing stood out to me: the soundtrack. it features Tabla drums, a percussive instrument common in traditional Indian music, with a hypnotic, buoyant quality that instantly drew me in.
curiosity struck, and i went down the age-old pipeline: Reddit. i came across a post where someone linked a track featuring the Tabla, and i fell in love with it immediately. itâs called The Key by Tosca, a mesmerizing trip-hop record that uses the Tabla to create a bouncy, rhythmic atmosphere.
the track is layered with a beautiful chord progression on buttery smooth, flowing synths. itâs grounded by off-time jazz instrumentation, and just when you think youâve figured it out, it surprises you. a panning vocal chop adds a psychedelic touch, and later, a reversed vocal sample sneaks inâmaking you stop everything and think, âhuh?â but in the best way possible.
listening to The Key feels like solving a secret: and you're the detective trying to unravel it. itâs a seven-minute trip i doubt youâll regret taking.
Dec 17, 2024