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intergenerational friendships
started the year off right with a three hour conversation with one of my former co-workers turned friend who is probably around my parents' age. went to a funky second wave coffee shop in my hometown and sat on some comfy chairs and caught up. then afterwards, we went to a craft store to look for frames for art she wants to hang up in her home. she encouraged and inspired me so much <3 I cherish her
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@nicolefar
Jan 2, 2025
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@sailor
this is so important! i used to unconsciously shy away from friendships with people who were older than me because i thought it'd be harder to relate to them, but it's really the essence of community, caring for others, regardless of age, and letting them nurture you as well
Jan 2, 2025
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@rubiksboob
Y'all are so lucky to have each other!
Jan 2, 2025
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@akhil
Older + wiser friends are the absolute best <3 I play tennis with two 50-somethings, they’re both sweet hearts and give the best life advice too. Also, they have immaculate taste in things!
Jan 2, 2025
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@lewel
quirky old friends are the dream
Jan 2, 2025

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My best friend is a 93 year old monk and my other best friends are an 80 year old married couple who sing folk songs in wine bars. I like the way they all view life as both a gift and method. I am proud to bring novelty to their lives and pleased that they don’t treat me as such.
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