Sure I’m hot but it doesn’t define me and physicality is ephemeral and fleeting. so much of what we admire in a person and find attractive is actually rooted in confidence, which has a whole host of other enriching benefits to your life beyond your appearance ❤️
Dec 20, 2024

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taterhole guide on how to be confident pls
Dec 20, 2024
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joeldcross this is going to sound soooo trite and simplistic but the short answer is that I think it really is a matter of learning to love and accept yourself + fake it as you make it and realize that lots of people around you also feel nervous and uncertain, everywhere you go!! Many people have just learned to overcome that and put on a brave face 🫶
Dec 21, 2024
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both matter but hotness doesn’t hit even close to as hard without confidence
Dec 20, 2024
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My friend and I happened upon this. Meaning, strive to live your life in a way that makes you feel hot. Dress to feel hot. Talk to feel hot. Do whatever you do, but in a way that makes you feel like you're worthy of the love and adoration and crushes and desire you deserve. This does not mean "sexy" necessarily--hotness is always shifting and has many forms. But reach deep inside and you'll find that your own personal method and mode of hotness can always, and most of the time is, an excellent guide.
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My friends would say that my type is medium ugly but truly I go for kindness over anything, and have no physical type - it’s all about kindness and understanding. If someone makes me feel comfortable in their company by being patient and non-judgmental, and being emotionally open and communicative, then i am way more likely to be attracted to them - kindness is what’s sexy to me, nothing to do with actual looks. Remember, sexy is subjective. e.g, abs on a man do nothing for me, I’d much rather a dad bod even on a physical only level. Beauty standards are made up and strange. And often times, it’s charisma, humour and kindness that make me feel that someone has sexy energy.
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When hot people are friendly, it makes the people they’re talking to feel hotter about themselves.
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