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Best Sex and the City character. I don’t know how season 3 will even be watchable without their non-binary Mexican Irish swag (I despise every character on this show) (I despise SATC I despise the movies and I despise And Just Like That the most which is why it’s my favorite) (but I love that Big is dead) ❤️
Dec 6, 2024
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Have you heard of it? Just kidding, of course your mom has. Anyway, because I am always relevant, I just began watching this iconic series mostly because I find myself missing New York so much (even though I never really lived in that New York. Everything is different! Everything is the same!). Most days, it’s all I think about. When will I be able to watch the next episode? Maybe I can fit one in in the middle of the day? Just one! They’re so short, you can have just a lil SATC, as a treat. I have a lot of thoughts on this show and the characters but my favorite thing is how terrible everyone is. Just like all of us!
Apr 20, 2021
The ‘Girls’ to ‘Sex And The City’ pipeline is real. The world of Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte, and Samantha feels a million miles away, but I enjoy the light dose of end-of-history-fantasy and the find single-minded, serious focus on romance and friendship endearing.
Also I find it morbidly fascinating to watch tv from an era before everyone became neurotic… they really don’t make em like this anymore.
Oct 16, 2024
God i love this show. With my 30th birthday creeping on me, i’m forever curious about what it’s even like to be an unmarried person still living in the city. I dream of live music, parties, socializing and brunch. Someone my age once told me all that stuff has to die if you want to mature but I think they just wanted it to. Forever seeking answers on where I should be and how I fit like Carrie. Always insecure of my love like Sam. Terminally critical like Miranda. Naïve and too trusting like Charlette. This show is perfection.
Apr 29, 2025
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌
Feb 23, 2025
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I’ve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapid—a critique often rooted in misogyny—but now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments.
We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretation—preconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume.
On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your image—selfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that there’s another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. It’s refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics.
By sharing so few images of myself, I’ve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentional—something that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance.
For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. I’ve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look.
In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? It’s a question worth considering.
Dec 27, 2024