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This rec is for WOMEN only I think we’re often socialized to be over-accommodating people pleasers. If this describes you and you’re reading this I’m not telling you to become a narcissistic monster but I’m giving you permission to be a little bad every once in a while 😜
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It lends a reflective and wistful tone to written communications imo…
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌
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