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make big scary decisions, take spontaneous trips, kiss random people, go on silly dates, get drunk in the city, do new things, close a chapter of ur life to start a new one some place new, do the things you never thought u would, shock the rhythm of ur brain and embrace the new version of yourself you become along the way.
maybe it’ll all go wrong but maybe it’ll all go so so right n you won‘t know until you try so u might as well do it.
perspective gained from a recently shaken life.
Nov 9, 2024
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given that you’ve already started the pivot, it seems like you just need a lil pep talk. here it goes: you are exactly the right age to be taking on new challenges. sure, theres some risk involved. but time is 100% on your side, and the fastest way to self-actualize is to operate outside your comfort zone.
just take this one day at a time and don’t stress about the unknowable future. its a waste of energy you could be dedicating to learning and growing here in the present. it will work out. it usually always does.
Aug 5, 2024
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When you make a commitment to life, life makes a commitment to you.
Maybe it is a bad choice and you need to adjust again. Oh well, you learn and you grow and now you know!
I’ve made a lot of straight up bad decisions. I’ve made a lot of decisions I thought were good that just weren’t the right fit. I have so many stories and the ones I’m most proud of include my courage. It was all worth it, and I wouldn’t change a thing.
Editing to add: I’ve blown up my life twice and it was hard but also what I NEEDED to do!! Trust in yourself 💗
Jun 19, 2024
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I used to try so hard to reinvent myself and it drove me absolutely crazy trying to be something that I wasn't. Just be open to new experiences and people and push yourself out of your comfort zone a little after you leave. Both leaving the place that you've been comfortable in and gradating high school are big changes and they will already kickstart the process of finding yourself. If you're open to it, you'll absolutely find yourself even if you don't realize it in the moment. You've got this!
Apr 18, 2024
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it’s hard to give context to this one bc it will look so different for every person but just please have patience with urself
Dec 1, 2024
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I went on a date this morning and it was sweet and fun and now I feel like I can do it again and it was so nice to meet a new person I’ve never known before. Incredible to know other people do exist.
(watch me unrec this when I go on a bad date)
Mar 29, 2024
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It’s my survival meal, I eat it most nights. I’m just not a girl who enjoys cooking.
Apr 3, 2024