I hate clothes. Thatās only a little bit dramatic. I feel like I go through them fairly often but still have too many. I go through phases where I buy things outside of my norm thinking Iāll wear them- I donāt. I go back to the same old stuff. I also am in my second postpartum in 3.5 years so Iām hanging on to stuff because my body is slowly shedding fat itās holding on to due to breastfeeding. Iām in no rush to wean but Iām looking forward to fitting into some of my favorite jeans again. I know the timeline this time around so by the time my now 7 month old is 2 years old Iāll be back to my pre pregnancy self (if I donāt really exercise).
Oct 23, 2024
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I love being an outfit repeater. I love when my clothes start to feel roomy & slouchy. I love when I notice the fabric color fading. I love when my jeans fray & the denim starts to break open on the knees. I love it when my clothes show that iāve lived.
Jan 18, 2025
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Because I already own so little I have a pretty bare-bones minimalistic lifestyle and probably have way less stuff than the average person. I donāt really buy things very often and Iāve always purged my possessions regularly, giving away whatever i didnāt have a need for. Iām kind of against selling things Iāve already bought and used it feels greedy to me.
Iāve tried but I donāt have enough hustle in me to sell on Poshmark or Depop so I recently sent multiple pairs of Rag & Bone shoes and boots to the thrift store (has anyone else had to RECKON WITH your delusional belief that your feet were smaller than they were? I donāt even want to say what size mine are) + lots of gorgeous clothes that no longer fit me because I was convinced that I would never lose enough weight to fit into them again but now that I have Iām like damn I wish I had my clothes back.
Anyway I literally canāt think of one thing I have that I shouldnāt? Maybe the low-cut socks I bought at Costco recently before I remembered that I stopped buying these socks at Costco years ago because they SLIP like CRAZY and Iām filled with rage every time I wear them. But I will probably just stay with them until they fall apart because Iām too cheap to buy more.
Oct 23, 2024
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When I was a wee twiggy girl approximately aged 16-23 I would just buy whatever I could find at thrift stores that was especially weird or interesting and didnāt have to think about what it looked like because I could just slap things together and look cute and quirky. As Iāve aged Iāve developed a gourmand tendency towards indulgence and, consequently, a figure a little more like Marilyn Monroe (not in the way a lot of women say itāno offense and bless them for living their truthāIām speaking objectively) so my focus is like purely on finding clothes that fit me structurally that have very particular shapes silhouettes and details. Iām also careful about finding clothes that fit within an autumnal color palette to suit my complexion. I generally wonāt buy clothes if theyāre not made of natural fibers and if Iām thrift shopping or on poshmark I keep an eye out for pieces from designers I love. I look for things that fit with my well loved staple items and only buy something if I really love it because I donāt like to have a lot of stuff anymore. I love lush textures and fabrics for winter like velvet and fur
Sep 13, 2024
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May 31, 2025
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Humans have always danced. It is part of who we are, yet we have been conditioned to be self conscious, to think that we do not move our bodies good enough. Dancing is beyond judgement. Dancing is not a skill, it is our soul moving through our bodies, expressed in movement. Dancing is healing. Dancing is bodily autonomy. Dancing is FUN! Any feeling you are feeling can be moved through with dance yet even alone, you fear looking foolish. Kill the judge in your mind, shut the fuck up, and MOVE š
Apr 24, 2025
In Tarot, The Fool is the first card in the Major Arcana, which represents the life cycle.Ā These cycles we are continuously going through in our lives, not just once.Ā The final card of the Major Arcana is The World (which I have tattooed very large on my thigh), which signifies the completion of a cycle and natural ascension into the next.Ā We are then thrust back into the Fool, with a bit more wisdom.
The Fool as an archetype is one of joy, curiosity, spontaneity, and trust.Ā The Fool is pure of heart, knowing that the Universe has got their back.Ā This innate trust allows The Fool to be playful, to take risks, and truly believe everything will work out.Ā The more we go through life and experience loss, grief, heartache, trauma, the harder it becomes to embrace this energy.Ā Iāve found that as healing goes on, just as itās shown in tarot, we return to this natural state of being.Ā We start off as The Fool when we are wee little babies, and if we are lucky can return there a few cycles at a time, with more wisdom gained each time.Ā Ā
The goal of The Fool is to have positive experiences, maybe for fun, maybe to grow.Ā There is an acceptance with The Fool, a kind of āthis is what is, how can I make this work well for me?ā Everything works out for The Fool because they donāt know it canāt. Anything we go through in life, we can use to grow.Ā I personally believe we all could benefit embracing the archetypal energy of The Fool a bit more.Ā The Fool doesnāt stop to worry what other people will think!Ā The Fool does not fret about what ifās!Ā The Fool is in the moment!
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