Rec | BECOMING TOTALLY DIVORCED FROM YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE

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becoming totally divorced from your physical appearance

i've completely lost interest in what I look like. i used to be so preoccupied by what I wore and how my face looked as a teenager that it was exhausting. i was so concerned about getting my eyeliner perfect every time. making sure my hair was the best honey blonde but that i still had tool and choking victim patches on my backpack. turned 24 and kind of going feral mode #idgaf. i don't care about looking beautiful or cool. it's about being beautiful or cool on the inside

@fruitbat

Oct 22, 2024

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