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Of course the media someone chooses to consume and the things they like to buy can signify certain personality traits but these choices aren’t personality traits in and of themselves. people take criticism of things they like as a personal attack and I think this is partly why there’s such a dearth of incisive cultural criticism today.
Encouraging people to personally identify with the products they buy = the devil’s marketing strategy…
Oct 7, 2024

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I think this extends to media as well… always odd to me how strongly people identify Themselves via the songs and movies and shows they consume
Oct 8, 2024
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sofe definitely was at the top of my mind when I was writing this it’s kind of crazy how all-encompassing fandom has become. We touch on it in this week’s new upcoming episode of Gilded!
Oct 8, 2024
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I have an acquaintance whose personality I have always found grating and today I finally realized exactly what it is that I dislike so much: they pride themselves on being an ideal consumer. They get chuffed as fuck at how well marketing works on them to the point of being borderline braggadocious about how quickly and deliberately they react to advertising; even when they’ve been duped or scammed they admire the way they’ve been fooled. It’s so cartoonishly American, they’re like a funhouse mirror that accentuates by own stupid fatso traits and stokes my most antisocial impulses. They say you should “let people enjoy things” but there’s got to be a healthier middle ground where my friend stops enjoying adding to their credit card debt to see every Ryan Reynolds movie in IMAX and I stop enjoying hating them for it.
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This is such a classic human instinct and it’s something we all have done at one point… I’ve been thinking about how I judge my dad (a working artist) and a friend of his (he was in a highly influential postpunk band that ended up breaking up and splintering into two bands, and he ended up staying in our hometown) for their aversion to “selling out”/their refusal to commodify and aggressively market themselves as artists. I kind of saw it as cope for their lack of commercial success… yet I’m realizing that I do the same thing and I have the same obnoxious beliefs, which I likely internalized from them, and it’s not even necessarily a bad thing it just means that I am decidedly not getting that bag which FEELS BAD in this capitalistic society and awful economy… curious… what are some things you judge other people for that you yourself do or believe?
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This is probably less of a choice and more of a personality defect. It’s ultimately an alienating and soul crushing way to live your life. But there is no way to be successful without being highly critical, at least as an editor. The danger is when you turn it on yourself and people you are close to (inevitable). In a culture where we’re sold blind positivity (profit motive), it's important to stay critical, to stay on your toes. As an editor this is most important. But it’s also important to be an “A-type” thinker instead of a “B-type” thinker: you have to offer ways to improve what it is you’re criticizing, and not just be critical for the sake of criticizing.
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