my friends gave me so much shit for not telling them about the guy who brought a Freud book to our first date until after he dumped me. so now iām sharing everything thatās even slightly questionable (like getting compared to ramona flowers)
During the throes of my last breakup someone very wise told me āthink of this as the luckiest day of your next boyfriendās lifeā. Life changing advice
You know how friends plan to have babies at the same time so they can become besties? Doing this but breaking up with your partner. you guys can go through the stages of grief together and plan a bunch of crazy trips. I personally havenāt done this, but I imagine this would rock.
for all of my childhood and adolescence i was a very lonely and solitary child and i thought that that was all there was for me. yesterday i was surrounded by friends who came out to see me for my birthday and we drank and danced till we could barely walk. this is a life i never thought iād have. there is always a light at the end of the tunnel no matter how weird and dark and long the tunnel is. wait it out. it really does get better.
i just stayed out till 4 in the morning at a party with incredibly pretentious people who didnt even ask me a single question about myself. all because i have a ridiculous fear of missing something. i couldāve gone home and smoked.
