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i started going to the cinema by myself last year and its the best thing ever. I dont know why it scared me so much to do things alone, however doing things solo actually made my social anxiety better. I love just hanging out by myself now; going to the cinema; a nature walk; solo study date at a cafe. Doing things alone will heal something in you
Oct 1, 2024
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Though some people might find this kind of depressing I actually see it as the opposite. It’s really been a while since I’ve done this but I see it necessary to go on a date with yourself once in a while. Go to a cafe, take a walk without any destination in mind, or you might as well go to the cinema on your own.
More than an act of self love I perceive it as a way to embrace solitude and get to know yourself more; It brings so much inner peace and helps to heal that part of yourself that finds loneliness daunting. There is a beauty in everything and solitude is not the exception.
Oct 7, 2024
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Idk, I’ve always loved being alone and doing things alone. I never understood friends who couldn’t even go to the bathroom alone. I hated waiting for people so I’d usually roll up to parties and events alone. I liked being on my own timeline.
I’m a mom now and would kill to go to a movie alone. Someone who would judge that is weird and is projecting their own anxiety and insecurity. You do you.
Jan 23, 2025
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I used to hate both spending time by myself and being single. would do whatever I could to avoid it. It made me feel unimaginably anxious
Years, lots of therapy, and some really wonderfully healing friendships later, I not only enjoy spending time alone, but have found a level of peace that gives me much higher standards for my romantic relationships, rather than needing to fill the silence
Jun 12, 2024
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and there are so many varieties!!!!
Oct 4, 2024
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its just a voice constantly processing and reacting to my perceptions and emotions, answering and asking my brain different things. I also picture things like when i read or when im figuring out what to wear i can visualize it in my head if that makes sense? do other people not see things when they read? or when they think about something specific?
Sep 30, 2024
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why can i never find anything at the store anymore? and this goes for thrift stores too. Everything is made of bad materials, bad quality, and everything just looks weird? It sits weird on the body, nothing looks nice anymore. Like comparing the old juicy tracks and the new ones? WHAT THE HELL IS THAT??? Why cant they make it the same way anymore, then that gets donated and the thrift stores get filled with shit clothing.
Nov 29, 2024