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exiting a party knowing you brought nothing but elegance and grace and good vibes

@linfo

Jul 5, 2024

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picking a time you're going to leave the party and sticking to it

i've regularly stayed out hours later than i wanted to and regretted it the next day. i don't really know what even keeps me out, it's like the "what if" feeling that something amazing might happen at 4am but it usually doesn't. last night i told myself that no matter what i would walk home at 1:30 and then i did and it felt so nice

@clarke

Jan 21, 2024

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going to a party to see your crush

there’s a good chance they’ll be there (hoping they will probably means they won’t but whatevs) and if they aren’t you can still queen out with your friends and have a good time!!

@tiff

Mar 15, 2024

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this portal i saw in the woods

cannot stop thinking about it. it has infected my mind

@nikau

Feb 1, 2024

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replacing embarrassment with endearment

romanticise ur blunders & ur missteps, bc that is just part of being a creature. if u saw a duckling fall flat on its face and scramble 2 its feet u wouldn't judge the freakin duckling, u would think it was the cutest thing ever. because it is. we r just organisms in big ungainly bodies, and that is part of our charm. tripping over ur own feet is maybe the most adorable thing u can do. like awwhh u tripped on the pavement </333 this extends 2 social interactions 2. messaging exes that u miss them, making a joke that doesn't land, mishearing/not knowing/forgetting something, etc??!!?! SO SWEET. genuinely such wonderful & important & adorable things 2 do. i think this is maybe the best thing i've ever managed 2 train my brain 2 do. it isn't foolproof but it makes life a lot gentler.

@nikau

Feb 5, 2024

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journals as archives

just about everything that happens to you will be interesting to your future self/your descendants/archaeologists. immortalise your to do lists, shopping lists, packing lists, things that loved ones say, things that strangers say, the phrases you hear that would make a good band name. brainstorm what to do on the weekend, list your cravings, the songs stuck in your head, transcribe birdsong, etc. i track my periods & my finances in my journal. sometimes if i really want to take a photo of something i'll restrain myself and draw it in my journal instead. sometimes i take notes for uni in there, or draft sewing patterns, or sketch when im bored. journals are self-portraits!!!!!!!

@nikau

Apr 21, 2024

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