going through some similar motions and this measely tiktok comment unironically did like +1000 healing to my psyche. really, the key is to remember you can only do so much at once. overexerting yourself will make you too tired to consume the fruits of your labor. they will rot and/or you will not enjoy them this way. find happiness in the little, fleeting moments you’re able to foster for yourself and bite off only what you can chew. besides, you want to make sure not to do things in haste. you want a solid foundation for future you and your contentment and don’t want to find any cracks in it later down the line…
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Sep 24, 2024

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This makes me think of when Drew Gooden in a video said "I understand how tempting a shortcut can be, especially when you go online and you see all these other people making cool things and you're like: 'Man, i'll never be that talented, it would take me like ten years to learn how to make music like that'. Okay - that's fine! What's the rush? Start right now, don't worry about how long it's going to take! Just take the first step. How're you gonna do something for ten years if you won't even do it for one day?"
Sep 24, 2024
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al3xa yeah! he made such a good point that i don’t think many people have come to terms with
Sep 24, 2024
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