Honestly just find some kind of activity where you can regularly feel accomplished. For me that's climbing bc you get to achieve sth each session (new routes! new grades!) or drawing as I 'achieve' sth each time I finish a drawing.
Alongside that, make sure you shower and clean your spaces regularly + dressing up every now and again! Just making sure you keep feeling and treating urself as a real human
Sep 21, 2024
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Do the things that make you happy and take pride in being a part of communities of like-minded folks. It can really be anything, as long as it brings you fun and friends. What makes a hobby "real" is the connection to life that you find when doing it. Having a few hobbies that keep you active, connected, and creative will greatly improve your relationship with life.
Apr 15, 2024
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For me it’s to find something to look forward to after certain days of the week such as a sport or club. So while youre thinking “ugh another day of work tomorrow”, you can also think “but once I get through that I can do ___!” Helps give purpose to what I’m doing as I know it won’t just be another day of work after the current one finishes.
Jan 17, 2025
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As y'all might know, I'm a climber. Which is fun, cute, sexy and I recommend everyone to become one. Only downside is that it's def a male dominated sport. There's plenty of girls who climb, but a large majority (in our gym) is male. Meaning that the likelihood of going on an outdoor climbing trip without men.. is small. Unless, of course, you organise a girls-only climbing trip. I would highly recommend doing so. Men r great but it's also nice to only be surrounded by girls who know what's it like to climb when you have a menstrual cycle and don't have a natural knack for dynamic power. Made me feel supported, seen and connected.
May 6, 2025
Oct 13, 2024
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Feels like the adult alternative to sleepovers as a kid. Telling eachother your deepest secrets and scariest truths while laying in the dark. Seeing the hours on your clock pass steadily, knowing it'll be a bitch to wake up in the morning but thinking that it's worth it.
Sep 18, 2024