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People have responded with some meme phrases so I feel emboldened to say this. It sends me flying into a rage every time which is quite often.
I hate the way people just take on and parrot words and phrases like this it’s kind of disturbing. I find myself doing it too and I’ve been trying to cut down on my use of such lexicon as of late but it’s going to take time to eradicate them completely. viral is such a sinister way to describe the spread of information and ideas online… when u think about it…
Sep 17, 2024

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At the most recent Toronto PI.FYI meetup someone said "demure" and the mood got palpably worse almost immediately.
Sep 17, 2024
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spencerto noooooo
Sep 17, 2024
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spencerto the public call out..
Sep 18, 2024
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forevercherry I didn't say who it was though…
Sep 18, 2024
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spencerto forevercherry the blind item drama…
Sep 18, 2024
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spencerto they know what they’ve done and that’s enough
Sep 18, 2024
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i also don’t think most people using it can even offer a definition of both words lol
Sep 17, 2024
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marxinista so true lol
Sep 17, 2024
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The thing that drives me wild about this is that being demure & mindful are real survival strategies! & they can be funny! but when Jonathan says it in absolutely any random context, it’s neither funny or interesting!
Sep 17, 2024
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florinegrassenhopper right they are actually great traits to have and originally it was kind of a PSA but now people will say it for anything
Sep 17, 2024
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ugh i feel this viscerally, very demure very mindful sounds basic af
Sep 17, 2024
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Seeing it waaaaay more in Internet Land lately and it’s just gross. Feeling like I’m back in middle school with how carelessly it’s thrown around. Not only is it offensive, but there are so many other words you can use that fit better. If you have been saying or typing it lately, ask yourself why. If you’ve been typing it but not saying it, you already know you’re being stupid.
Feb 29, 2024
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while discussing current linguistic trends in a small group we were talking with an older zoomer and someone around my age and how some words become “trendy” (this is where some red flags starting going off in my head), and how some people use slay to seem “in touch” and just comes off as off putting. the person near my age then said that words like “slay” and “period” were, essentially, trends two years ago. here’s where my sleeper agent was activated. what i would have said was how we (we were all white in the discussion) tend to appropriate and steal words as they are pushed into algorithms and become colloquial speach without acknowledging their sources (which 90% of the time is from queer poc, especially from the ballroom and drag scene). i forgot i’m one of few who actually knows this and tries to subvert my usage of said language for words that aren’t bastardized and stolen from other cultures even though i may be queer myself, that doesn’t give me or others a pass to use words that can sound unintentionally stolen, misused, or worse. just wanted to say that — sorry for not really reaching a “point” with this it’s just a very special cross-interest of mine with linguistics, semantics, and drag/ballroom culture with which i am all interested in :p
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Ye olde shenanigans Also we don’t say words like ‘barren’ enough
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